There can be anywhere from 1 other bridesmaid to 12 other bridesmaids. Seriously, I had a teacher in high school who had 13 bridesmaids. It can be odd to be the 1 gal that is singled out. In the wedding hierarchy, you're up there. So, how's that feel?
It can be wonderful and scary at the same time. In the wedding I was in, I didn't really know the other gals. I had heard all their names and seen their pictures on facebook, but that's about it. It felt really weird to know that since my Bride and I were in a LDF (Long Distance Friendship), most of her other bridesmaids pretty much hung out all the time.
Tips to Getting to Know the Other Bridesmaids:
- Friend them on Facebook
I know this sounds so basic, but nowadays it really starts the foundation of the relationship. It's easier to have a mass Facebook message thread to communicate. You can see each other's personalities and start to have a real relationship.
- Invite to Pinterest Board
Are you a Pinner? I sure am. I started a secret board and invited all the bridesmaids to join it for the bridal shower & bachelorette party inspiration. If you're not yet a pinner, I highly recommend getting on pinterest. It's way easier than googling shower & bachelorette ideas.
- Co-planning Bridal Shower
While you maybe the 'hostess' of the party, definitely invite the bridesmaids to participate. It will help with costs and can be a great way to bond.
- Have a Bridesmaid Day
Go out to brunch or lunch, go to a movie, just go shopping for the parties. Whatever you do, definitely have a bridesmaid day without the bride. You get to learn about everyone and create a memory. In those awkward silent moments you can refer back to this. Plus, it can be lots of fun. :)
Well that's about all I hate. Does anyone else have any other suggestions as to how to bond with the other bridesmaids?
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